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Financial Gaslighting: When Contracts Feel Confusing On Purpose

February 24, 2026 By Ellen Leave a Comment

Contracts are supposed to create clarity. They define expectations, responsibilities and protections. Yet many people sign agreements that feel dense, tangled and strangely hard to follow. When confusion becomes part of the experience, it can start to feel personal, as if misunderstanding is the reader’s fault rather than the document’s design. This dynamic is often […]

Filed Under: review Tagged With: advice, Financial gaslighting, help, Review

How to Choose the Right Electric Vehicle for Your Lifestyle

February 18, 2026 By Ellen Leave a Comment

Image by wydawca from Pixabay Electric vehicles are no longer something that are in the distant future. They have rapidly become a part of the everyday lifestyle in several corners of the world. As charging infrastructure starts to improve and more models come on the market, many drivers are beginning to consider whether electric cars […]

Filed Under: review Tagged With: lifestyle, motoring, Review

Empty landscape – 100 words

December 7, 2025 By Ellen

Empty landscape   Wind turbines rolling lazy in front of layered sky. Alto stratus, rainbowed crystals and morning mists retreating to the river where smoothed rocks chatter and turn. Stretched shadows from black bales, winter feed for cattle still cropping, hoof-deep in mud by the trough, flicking flies from rumps. That gate, its weary post […]

Filed Under: 365, 365 photos, other things I have learned, review Tagged With: 100 words, 2023 challenge, country life, pay attention, poem, quiet place

How to Maintain Independence in Your Senior Years

December 7, 2025 By Ellen

Staying independent in your senior years doesn’t mean pretending you’re a superhero who can leap tall buildings or carry 3 bags of groceries in one hand. So if you can, that’s impressive. Independence is really about making choices that keep you confident, safe, and in control of your future.    For many people, exploring options […]

Filed Under: review Tagged With: aging, how to live, independence, life, living

Decking the halls and looking for my fa-la-la-la laa

December 3, 2025 By Ellen

Edit: I wrote this 15 (!) years ago. The boys are much bigger but much of the feeling is the same. I don’t mean to be a humbug but December brings me out in panic attacks. Maybe I’m allergic to Slade. For me Christmas is wonderful, but only in sort of snapshots. I love the […]

Filed Under: Christmas

How To Transform A Dim Room Into A Bright Welcoming Space

December 3, 2025 By Ellen

CC0 Licensed Image Courtesy of Freepik You can transform a dim room into something bright and airy with some simple changes that won’t break the bank. Just one will help a home feel brighter, but together you have something much more welcoming. From mirrors to open space, here are some handy suggestions. The Power of […]

Filed Under: other things I have learned, review Tagged With: home, ideas, interiors

How Santa is destroying Christmas for our kids…

November 19, 2025 By Ellen

I dithered about allowing Boy Three to go to his after school club’s Christmas Party – and here’s why… Claus for concern pic: Kevin Dooley via Flickr It’s supposed to be magical. Children waiting for the kindly, bearded chap to deliver their heart’s desire into an old sock on Christmas Eve. Then they ooh and […]

Filed Under: Christmas, family, Father Christmas, grottoes, ho ho ho, Humbug, Santa Tagged With: boys, children, Christmas, family, festive, hohoho, humbug, in my life, in the world, Santa, something happened in my world

Choosing Between Refurbishing or Buying New Dining Chairs

November 19, 2025 By Ellen

Dining chairs are a huge component of your home interior design, serving both as practical needs and visual focal points. When you are upgrading or updating your dining area, the decision between refurbishing the old chairs or purchasing new ones often presents itself as a challenging one. Both options have unique benefits that depend on […]

Filed Under: other things I have learned, review Tagged With: dining chairs, home, interiors, refurbishment

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