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19/365 Dilated to meet you

January 20, 2013 By Ellen



Boy Three made his first trip to the optician today. He’s only three and a half but the staff at nursery suggested it would be a good idea. He’s a clumsy little chap, but I’d put it down to his habit of hurtling everywhere at top speed.

But stopping to consider it, Boy Two wears specs and had a lazy eye (amblyopia), it wouldn’t be surprising. Boy Two’s condition was picked up at the routine pre-school eye test.

Our lovely optician had to use drops (dilating juice) to see what was going on properly and she is going to refer him to the hospital opthamologist. Boy Three is utterly thrilled by this because he is desperate to have glasses like his big brother.

I’m less thrilled. I mean, I’m pleased that if he has got something, which we don’t know yet, then it’s been spotted early. But it’s funny how the first imperfection in your immaculate child makes your heart sink ever so slightly.

Yes, yes, I know, but I’m just saying it how it feels. With Boy One it was asthma, Boy Two his eyes and, now, maybe, Boy Three. A later, more challenging diagnosis (in our case Asperger’s) was difficult, but not the same as the feeling of first blemish.

Filed Under: 365, 365 photos, Aspie, autism, Boy Three, eyes, glasses, optician

Comments

  1. sarnison - barnton pharmacy says

    January 20, 2013 at 11:57 am

    All of your boys are still gorgeous. not perfect, but gorgeous!

  2. Debbie says

    January 20, 2013 at 1:49 pm

    What Sally said xxx

  3. Supersavers Opticians in Dublin says

    February 4, 2013 at 10:03 am

    Eyes are very sensitive and needs proper care and attention. For Kids, eye care holds equal importance as they are more prone to eye diseases.It is very necessary to add eye care to our lifestyle.

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