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Decking the halls and looking for my fa-la-la-la laa

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Edit: I wrote this 15 (!) years ago. The boys are much bigger but much of the feeling is the same. I don’t mean to be a humbug but December brings me out in panic attacks. Maybe I’m allergic to Slade. For me Christmas is wonderful, but only in sort of snapshots. I love the […]

How Santa is destroying Christmas for our kids…

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I dithered about allowing Boy Three to go to his after school club’s Christmas Party – and here’s why… Claus for concern pic: Kevin Dooley via Flickr It’s supposed to be magical. Children waiting for the kindly, bearded chap to deliver their heart’s desire into an old sock on Christmas Eve. Then they ooh and […]

My 12 Questions of Christmas

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This year I’m actually fairly jolly. Ho ho ho and all that, but some things are baffling me: Who said we have to get all our shopping done by the first weekend in December?  Why is a dressing gown and a tea towel the accepted costume for nativity plays?  When are all these parties we […]

Christmas: How to cope when it isn’t your turn to have the kids

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I wrote this a couple of Christmases ago and I was reminded of it when I saw another mum chum going through similar this year.  Every other year Boys One and Two spend Christmas with their dad. We’ve been doing it this way for 15 years now. So that’s around seven December 25ths I’ve spent […]

Things you don’t need for a happy Christmas

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Undeniably, inexorably Christmas is coming. I can almost smell the turkey and mince pies. Jingle jingle. This year I have decided I’m going to be jolly from the outset. I’ll be so flipping festive you’ll couldn’t pick me out of a lineup of Santa’s elves. But first I’ve got to get one or two tiny, […]