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Financial Gaslighting: When Contracts Feel Confusing On Purpose

February 24, 2026 By Ellen Leave a Comment

Contracts are supposed to create clarity. They define expectations, responsibilities and protections. Yet many people sign agreements that feel dense, tangled and strangely hard to follow. When confusion becomes part of the experience, it can start to feel personal, as if misunderstanding is the reader’s fault rather than the document’s design. This dynamic is often […]

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Top Tips for Supporting Your Child with their Mental Health

January 4, 2022 By Ellen

Mental health is just as important as physical health but unlike a cut or bruise, it can be hard to tell when someone is suffering and know how to help. We have teamed up with a private school in Hampstead to share a few top tips for supporting your child with their mental health. Take […]

Filed Under: family, review Tagged With: child, help, mental health

Self-isolation: Day two, things I’ve learned

March 18, 2020 By Ellen

I think it was the piano that did it. Googling the piano like the yamaha dgx 640 digital piano, and wondering whether Amazon (or whoever) would be able to deliver it. In a dull moment (of which there have been surprisingly few) I found myself wondering about all the marvelous things we could learn during […]

Filed Under: boys, family, other things I have learned, things I learned from my children today Tagged With: children, coronavirus, Covid 19, family, help, in my life, in the world, isolation, plans, quarantine, Something happened in my life, WFH, wifi, working from home

Mental load: at last, a name for that thing

July 1, 2017 By Ellen

You should have asked.  It’s the title of a comic strip in the Guardian by French feminist artist Emma. It beautifully describes a thing I’ve been clumsily groping towards for years. When you have all of the stuff for everyone in the house in your head, most of the responsibility for getting things done and, […]

Filed Under: family, feminism, Feminist, feminsim, feminsm Tagged With: feminism, gender, guardian, help, housework, mental load, Sexism

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