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Dust If You Must

April 1, 2022 By Ellen

Dust if you must, but wouldn’t it be better To paint a picture or write a letter, Bake a cake or plant a seed, Ponder the difference between want and need? Dust if you must, but there’s not much time,  With rivers to swim and mountains to climb, Music to hear, and books to read,  […]

Filed Under: Dust if you must. Rose Milliagan. Poem. Tagged With: futile, housework, poem

Housework is a feminist issue

April 13, 2018 By Ellen

Nearly joking   One of today’s jobs A woman’s work is never done. Barefoot, pregnant and chained to the kitchen sink. Maybe that’s a joke, a cliche that’s old hat, but not entirely… Survey after survey show that women do the lion’s share of domestic chores regardless of how much paid work they do. They […]

Filed Under: boys, family, feminism, gender roles, housework, things I learned from my children today Tagged With: chore, domestic, feminism, housework

Mental load: at last, a name for that thing

July 1, 2017 By Ellen

You should have asked.  It’s the title of a comic strip in the Guardian by French feminist artist Emma. It beautifully describes a thing I’ve been clumsily groping towards for years. When you have all of the stuff for everyone in the house in your head, most of the responsibility for getting things done and, […]

Filed Under: family, feminism, Feminist, feminsim, feminsm Tagged With: feminism, gender, guardian, help, housework, mental load, Sexism

This mother’s job

November 3, 2016 By Ellen

“Will we be on time?” Boy Two glances anxiously at the car click. It’s the weekend and we are driving to a snowboarding lesson. Instead of a calm reassurance, the poor boy gets a bit of a rant and then a lecture. The thing is – he knows when we’ve to be there and how […]

Filed Under: boys, family, things I learned from my children today Tagged With: boys, children, cleaning, family, housework, in my life, in the world, parenting, things I've learned

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