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On fighting against age and other wastes of time

May 16, 2017 By Ellen

  It doesn’t matter how much imagination or empathy you’ve got, sometimes it’s hard to know what something feels like til you’re doing it. What I’m doing these days is being nearly 50. (Less than a fortnight, since you ask.) From the advantage of youth, you’d have thought that 50 was the end of the […]

Filed Under: other things I have learned Tagged With: ageing, feminism, in my life, in the world, on my mind, rant, Something happened in my life, women

On a (nearly) 50-year-old mind…

April 28, 2017 By Ellen

How can I possibly be 50? 40 was old enough and that was only 10 minutes ago. They’re right, though. You don’t feel any different inside. Can I pick 28? That was a great age. Between puppy fat and baby fat! So, if nothing has changed in the last decade, how come the all the […]

Filed Under: other things I have learned Tagged With: 50, ageing, birthday, getting old, in my life, My Life, on my mind, women

Top books we lie about reading to appear more cultured

March 30, 2017 By Ellen

The best blogs are about making you feel that you aren’t alone in your secret little shame. You read them to feel better about feeding your children toast three times a day, cleaning your bathroom with your dirty knickers or fancying Tyrion Lannister. That kind of thing. This one’s about the books you pretend to […]

Filed Under: other things I have learned Tagged With: books, education, fiction, humour, in my life, reading, slacker's guide, travel, writing

Happy (ish) Mother’s Day

March 25, 2017 By Ellen

  Most of us love our mums and are reasonably confident that our children love us too – even when they’re being ungrateful little rats who don’t see why they should put their own soiled clothing in the laundry basket. After all we are mothers every day of the year, not the one where we […]

Filed Under: things I learned from my children today Tagged With: boys, family, gin, humour, in my life, in the world, Mother's Day, mums, parenting, rant

To a teenager

March 24, 2017 By Ellen

I see you, teenage child. With your swagger and secrets. Sticking your flag in new territories. Of course, I’m boring. Show me a mother who isn’t. It’s our gift. To you. A life solidified – a crash mat made of person. Ready for your ungrateful bounce.  

Filed Under: boys, family Tagged With: children, creative writing, in my life, poetry, teenager, writing

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